Being a part of a team is an invaluable experience. Kids learn a lot about work ethic all while getting some necessary physical activity. If your child has been playing sports for a while now, they’ve undoubtedly went through a tryout. Those who are just dipping their toe in for the first time might be dreading them. Whether first tryout or not, the process can be a stressful one. Not just for the kids, but parents too. If your child happens to be preparing for tryouts and you aren’t sure how to help, check out these suggestions.

Put in the time

Encourage your kid to begin preparing and practicing before tryouts. If you have the time, work with them. You can find important skills and useful drills online for practically every sport. Have your child work on vital skills and drills beforehand. They’ll be ahead of the curve and increase the likelihood of making the team. You can also put in some time talking to other parents whose kids have tried out for the team before. This is especially helpful if your child is trying out for the first time. Reaching out to other parents can give you and your child a much clearer picture. You’ll have a better idea what to expect and how to prepare.

The right attitude is essential

For all of the emphasis placed on being physically ready, kids have to be mentally prepared as well. They need to listen to the coach and work together with teammates. As hard as it is for everyone, not just children, they need to be capable of taking criticism and work on implementing any adjustments a coach might suggest. How coachable a kid is comes heavily into play when the coach is selecting the team. Physical aptitude is awesome, but being mentally mature enough is just as imperative.

Instill confidence

Confidence is one of the most valuable tools a young athlete can have in their arsenal. The anxiety of tryouts may not fade away completely, but having confidence can certainly limit nerves. As everyone knows, nerves and fear can hold you back. If you can manage to make sure your child isn’t afraid for tryouts, it’ll benefit them significantly. Not having to focus on anxiety frees them up to be more attentive to the tryout itself.

Get them to play hard

The phrase, “leave it all out on the field” is more than just a platitude. Playing hard and exerting maximum effort is one of the best ways for your kid to prove they have what it takes to be on the team. Even if your child isn’t the most gifted physically, every coach recognizes athletes who give it their all. Coaches always want that kind of player on their team.

Keep things in perspective

Making the team is going to be important for your child. Chances are they are going to put a lot of time into preparing for tryouts. One of the best things you can do for your youth athlete is put things in perspective for them. If they don’t make the team, it’s not the end of their sports career. They can always try again next year or try out for another team in the area.

 

The best thing you can do for your child is be supportive. Be there for them. Assist them in whatever they need. You may not be able to help with every aspect of preparing for tryouts, but you can make the whole process easier on them.